Isn't it pretty to think so?: Worth

March 30, 2010

Worth

I have three children.

I have lost five.
I have been married for almost six years.

How can he not even know if he thinks our marriage is worth working on? Worth fighting for?

I want him to be nice.

He wants to be happy.

Maybe it's not.

Mar 30, 2010 8:03:57 AM | tears

5 Comments

I am so sorry...I don't know what to say. Please know that I'm here thinking about you, hoping and praying that things work out for you, somehow.

xoxo

Posted by: Mandy | March 30, 2010 at 09:18 AM

As hard as it is, you need to make him go. It soundslike it is almost a game with passive/aggresive behavior. Make upi YOUR mind and don;t worry about his. He already has an agenda and has his mind made up. Look what it will do to the kids in the long run.. Think they cannot see or feel the emotions? Contact a lawyer and get your stuff in line in case. Have visitation set up and YOU make the rules. Be in control as hard as it is... Sorry if it seems tough, but I have been in this type of relationship/situation. He is trying to manipulate and as long as you "play" it will continue. Do not even try to make him be something he is not..it will fail...
Keep your chin up!!!

Posted by: jp | March 31, 2010 at 03:01 PM

*big hug* I'm sorry. This just plain sucks. and even worse, I don't know the right words to say. But just know that you've got people who support you and believe in you. Keep pressing on.

Posted by: Jericho | April 17, 2010 at 08:59 PM

I live this life everyday. I love him and he loves him.....but I don't know if I could ever really love him again...We have two kids and I want them to have a great life. I am not ready to be a single mom and struggle for money. I love my "money" and lifestyle too much....so I take the verbal insults and feeling of lonliness.

Posted by: Veronica | September 01, 2010 at 09:55 AM

I think of you often and hope and pray that you are well!!!

Posted by: Leanne | December 04, 2011 at 04:33 PM

The comments to this entry are closed.

Hell He was here all day yesterday. And then he left again. Each time he leaves it tears my heart out. He needs to figure out what he wants. He doesn't think it can work. I want to try. He says...

Your best friend calls you and tells you he/she's really sick? How do you show you care? Wow...I hope you get this Leanne, I can't believe you still think of me. Thank you. I just logged on to this website for the first time in a long time and saw that you commented. I don't know how to get in touch with you any other way. I can't subscribe to your blog for some reason. Anyway, i would love to get back in touch with you and also let you know that I started a new blog...a little different than the old one. It's not anonymous...I hope I can still be honest. Here is the address: <a href="http://lipglossforthis.blogspot.com/">http://lipglossforthis.blogspot.com/</a><br/> Please be in touch if you get this.